How to Develop a Purposeful Quiet Time Routine

Most mornings my alarm goes off at 5:45 am, I can’t believe I just typed that.  I am not a natural born morning person and for years I had no desire to get up long before my kids.

These days, I know I will regret pushing snooze so I flip off the covers, slip on my slippers and head downstairs to the quiet and still peaceful kitchen.  I warm some hot water in my tea kettle and prepare myself some french press coffee before settling into my chair and beginning quiet time with God.

Before I created a quiet time routine, my bible reading and prayer were haphazardly placed in my day.  I didn’t have a plan and quite honestly more days than not that meant it just didn’t happen.  Like any relationship, our relationship with God is at its best when we spend time with him, praying and reading His word.  So, how do you cultivate a simple and purposeful quiet time?

How to develop a quiet time with God

Know Why You Want to Cultivate this Habit

Before you set-up your spot or set the alarm, you first need to make sure you know your why.  This step is often skipped but asking why when establishing any routine is essential.

When you know your why, you will keep on keeping on even on the hard days, the days you don’t want to get out of bed.

So, why do you want to create a quiet time routine?  My why was simple.  It wasn’t because I was supposed to, although I had heard for years it was an essential part of a Christian’s walk.  That “why” was not going to sustain me for long.  Instead, I wanted to make God a priority in my life and grow a deeper relationship with Him.  Spending time with Him made life better.

Find a Time

Once you know why you want to do it and make establishing this routine a priority, you need to find a time.  Most people like early mornings because there are fewer distractions and it’s a great way to start the day.  I would agree but when I had little kids underfoot, just the thought of getting up early made me tired.  So, choose a time that works best for you.

Gather Your Materials

In order to make the best use of your time, gather all of your materials into a basket and choose a spot to do your quiet time.  It doesn’t have to be fancy, it just has to be functional.  Gather a pen, highlighter, devotional, journal and study bible near where you will have your quiet time.

Set an Alarm & Practice

Even if you don’t get up early, set an alarm or make it an appointment in your planner.  Cultivating a new routine feels clunky at first.  Remember, when you first learned to ride a bike.  It felt wobbly and you didn’t exactly know what to do but with practice and time, you figured it out.  Give yourself grace as you practice this new habit.  Experts say it takes at least 21 days to make a new routine, a habit.

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How to Structure Your Quiet Time

So, now that you are cultivating this new routine, how do you make it purposeful?  I structure my quiet time into 4 main categories.

Gratitude

I think of quiet time as a conversation with God.  I start out giving him thanks for all he has given me.  I use my journal and think of all the small ways I have to be grateful to start.

praying hands and bible

Prayer

Then, I transition to prayer by giving him thanks for all the things I am grateful for and the things that are weighing on my heart, prayers for others and myself.  I love writing down my prayers because my heart just flows right on to the paper.

Scripture

I finish my quiet time reading God’s word.  You could read a devotional or the Bible.  I love to read a book of the Bible in its entirety so I can understand the full story and context.  If you are new to reading the bible, you could start with Philippians or John.  You can read at your own pace.  God can use even one scripture to teach you something.

A study bible (like this one) is also really helpful in helping you understand what the author was trying to express.  There are also cross-references to other Bible passages with the same theme located usually in the margins of a bible.

As I am reading a passage, I ask myself two questions –

  1. What does this say about God
  2. What lesson or promise can I apply to my life

Just Remember to Give Yourself Grace

It might surprise you to know, I don’t have a quiet time every day.  I aim for 5 days a week.  We often beat ourselves up for the days we didn’t do instead of celebrating the habit we are creating.

I often fall into the trap of wanting it to be all or nothing but life doesn’t work like that, you will give up if you think you have to do it perfectly.  Keep going, don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater because you missed a day!

Quiet times also don’t have to be the same length every day.  God is always there ready to hang out with you.  No quiet time routine looks the same but that’s the beauty, you and God can make it be exactly what you need.

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Until next time, keep on keeping on with a simple, purposeful life!
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