When Christmas Gets Overwhelming

It was my first time hosting a holiday.  Scott and I had been married 2 years and I was 5 months pregnant with our first child. It was the time to show my domestic-ness (you know what I mean).  I decided not to ease into hosting, my first mistake.   I went big like Clark from Christmas Vacation and hosted both of our families.  It was going to be great.

I decided to cook the ham in an electric roaster oven while we were at church.  When we got home I opened the door and was hit in the face with smoke.  My ham was now a brickette and I had a moment.

My husband and mom tried to comfort me but I would not have it.  I was a hormonal mess and my first Easter was ruined for sure, there was no protein for my meal.  What would I do?  They dashed off to the only store open on a holiday and found canned ham. I served canned ham on my first holiday.

I got overwhelmed and the burnt ham and forgot what mattered.

When Life Gets Overwhelming

Don’t we all get overwhelmed? Especially at Christmas with the presents, the menu, getting everyone to agree on matching pajamas, find the perfect Christmas outfit and wondering if everyone is going to get along around the dinner table.  If you are overwhelmed, you aren’t alone.  I have too.  So did Martha!  Do you remember Martha from Luke 10:38-42?

Martha got overwhelmed hosting Jesus and had a moment!  She confronted Jesus! Say what?  Now, Jesus in all his wisdom did not fire back a snarky response when she asked if he cared about her.  Instead, He said she was worried and upset over many things but few were needed.  Indeed only one and that Mary (her sister) had chosen what was better.

Jesus wanted Martha to know that although her heart was in the right place and she was doing all these things to serve him that she missed out on being with him.

What Really Matters

The lesson, we can learn from Martha is remember that although the details are good, there is something greater.  All Jesus wants for his big birthday bash is our presence with Him.  When was the last time this season you sat down and talked to Him?  Laid your burdens, woes of family drama and burnt ham at his feet?

It’s so easy to get overwhelmed but Jesus reminded Martha to let your worship inform your work.  Give the gift of your presence to Jesus.

When I ask my dad what he wants for Christmas, he always says the same thing – time with us.  Jesus, our heavenly father, wants the same thing.  Although we can never repay him for his great gift of salvation, all he wants from you this Christmas is the gift of your time. He will give peace to your overwhelmed soul.

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Christmas Encouragement

Here’s some Christmas encouragement.  God’s word says He will refresh your soul, order your day and give you a heavenly perspective that we desperately need when we get lost in the details.  We all get overwhelmed but turn to Jesus and give him your cares and let his peace wash over you.

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I shared this message at a recent women’s event.  You can watch it on Simple Purposeful Living’s YouTube channel.  Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss future videos!  Watch here.

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10 Fun and Easy Advent Activities for Families

Every morning during Advent my kids’ dash down the stairs to see what our special daily activity is in our little advent calendar hanging in the kitchen.  I love it too, I won’t lie.  Come Christmas day I am a little sad it’s all over.  So, I rounded up 10 of my favorite fun and easy Advent Activities for families so we could all enjoy the entire advent season with our families simply on purpose.

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1.  Jesus Storybook Bible Advent Reading

We love the Jesus Storybook Bible!  If you don’t have it, you need to get it!  You can also get free printable cards with a daily reading from the bible that shares the reason for the season.   You can print off a set, laminate them so you can use them year after year and put them on a little ring.  Do a card nightly.  You can download your set here.

2.  Christmas Hymn Advent Calendar

Kristin at Maximizing Days created a Christmas Hymn advent calendar for her family.  She found a Christmas hymn for all 25 days and then every day they look up the song on Youtube and enjoy worshipping as a family.  You can read more about this activity here.

3.  Christmas Book Countdown

Amanda at Miss Sue Living wraps up 25 Christmas books for her family to open and read every evening.  She even shared how she simplified the wrapping process.  You can read more here.

4.  Shepherd on a Search

This box set comes with an illustrated storybook about the shepherd’s journey to find baby Jesus.  Hide the shepherd every day and the kids can have fun finding him.  Finally, on Christmas Day the shepherd finds baby Jesus in the manger.  You can get your set here.

25 Days of Christmas activities printable with advent calendar

5.  25 Days of Simple Family Christmas Activities

Spending time as a family enjoying the season is so important.  Download the printable 25 days of Christmas activities.  Some activities are bigger and better suited for the weekend like visiting Santa, driving through a light display or going to get hot cocoa in your jammies.  While there are plenty of small activities perfect for a busy weeknight.

At the beginning of the month, look at your calendar and plan out each day’s activities.  Place an activity in each little pocket of an advent calendar.  Here is a similar one.  You can get the 25 days of activities printable to do with your family by signing up here.

Make this cute advent calendar to house your activities.

6. Jesse Tree Activity

A Jesse Tree is an old tradition that is used to help tell the story of the Bible from creation to the Christmas story.  Each day there is a daily Bible reading and you can hang an ornament that corresponds with the reading.  The first day talks about creation and you could hang an earth ornament on a little tree.

Ann Voskamp has a Jesse Tree interactive book.  Check out Wonder of the Greatest Gift.  Get your copy here.

7.  The Giving Manger

Celebrate the birth of Jesus by sparking the spirit of service this Christmas.  Every time someone in your family does an act of service or extends kindness, add another piece of straw to Jesus’ manger.  On Christmas day baby Jesus is placed in the manger full of love and service.  Get yours here.

8.  Advent Cards

All Good Things Collective has a set of 25 colorfully decorated cards with prompt or activity.  Each of the cards promotes connecting with others and with Christ.  You can get your set here.

The Kids Read Truth Advent Cards provide a short Scripture reading, questions, and illustrations. A perfect activity for dinner-time or bedtime.  Get your set here.

9.  Advent Wreath

Light the 4 candles of the advent wreath and usher in the light of the world, Jesus.  Check out this magnetic Advent wreath, it’s perfect for kids.  This post shares how you can make an easy advent wreath with your kids.

10. Knowing Him By Name Advent Calendar

Focus on the Family’s 2018 free advent devotional for families focuses on the names of Jesus and corresponding scriptures. The calendar also includes faith-based activities that will help kids develop understand who Jesus is.  Download your copy here.


Now, it’s time to enjoy the Advent season with your family and make sweet memories.  Remember, to avoid the inclination to try all these ideas.   This Christmas choose one simple, purposeful activity and remember the reason for the season with your family.  How do you celebrate the Advent season with your family?

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Advent Calendar Gift Guide + More

Tis the season to start thinking about Christmas!  Today, I wanted to share a fun tradition we love, advent calendars.  Every year my mom gets each of my kids an advent calendar based on their interests.  Luckily, retailers have caught on to advent calendars and there are more options than ever.  Now’s the time to pick some up and they have some great options on Amazon!


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Advent Calendars for Toddlers

Playmobil 1, 2, 3 Christmas on the Farm Advent Calendar (find it here)

VTech Go! Go! Smart Animals Advent Calendar (find it here)

VTech Go! Go! Smart Wheels Advent Calendar (find it here)

Little People Advent Calendar (find it here)

Advent Calendars for Preschoolers

Thomas & Friends Fisher-Price Advent Calendar (find it here)

Paw Patrol Advent Calendar (find it here)

Hot Wheels Advent Calendar (find it here)

Schleich Farm World Advent Calendar (find it here)

Melissa & Doug Countdown to Christmas Wooden Advent Calendar Tree (find it here)

Barbie Advent Calendar (find it here)

Play-Doh Advent Calendar (find it here)

Crayola Countdown to Christmas Activity Advent Calendar (find it here)

Advent Calendars for School-Aged Children

Mega Construx American Girl Advent Calendar (find it here)

Playmobil Royal Ice Skating Party Advent Calendar (find it here)

Playmobil Santa’s Workshop Advent Calendar (find it here)

Lego Star Wars Advent Calendar (find it here)

Lego City Advent Calendar (find it here)

Lego Friends Advent Calendar (find it here)

Hatchimals Collegtibles Advent Calendar (find it here)

Mega Bloks Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Advent Calendar (find it here)

Squishy Advent Calendar (find it here)

Schleich Horse Club Advent Calendar (find it here)

Charm Bracelet Advent Calendar (find it here)


If you have an Elf on the Shelf, your elf could bring an advent calendar on December 1st!  Advent Calendars make great gifts and help you enjoy and celebrate the Christmas season every single day!

Today, for Simple Purposeful Living’s 10 on the 10th Link-up, we are sharing all our best holiday tips, so if you blogged, make sure to link up below!  Then visit a few other blogs and say hello.

Before you go, here are a few posts I have shared to help you prepare for the Holidays –

10 Things To Do Now For Christmas

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25 Activities To Do This Christmas


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Have You Lost Your Christmas Spirit?

This time of year conjures up all sorts of feelings.  You may be grieving the loss of a loved one, experiencing financial stress, feeling over-tired or over-worked and the list goes on and on.  You may be overwhelmed by the to-do list that’s nearly as long as Santa’s and your little ones aren’t nearly as helpful as his elves.

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Have you lost your spirit?

Whatever the cause, you really just want to know how to go about finding some joy.  Where is that joy hiding?  Is it at the bottom of the 3rd cup of coffee?  It’s not, I already looked there.

To top off the long list of stuff that is added to your plate, you have the stuff that was already on your plate.  You know the feeding, clothing, laundering, shuttling and loving you do all year through.  Most of the work associated with Christmas preparation falls on your shoulders and no one needs to tell you, your shoulders are looking slumped.

They might say: “This season will pass, they are only young once, let the wonder of Christmas in your children fill your heart.” None of that really works.  No amount of close proximity to your children (and there is a lot of that) will rub the Christmas spirit on to you.

So what’s a person to do?

Come to me all who are weary and heavy burdened and I will give you rest.  Matthew 11:28

From the lips of Jesus himself.  The very man who came into the world as a tiny infant, the very reason we celebrate Christmas.  He never meant for Christmas to become what it is today.  He didn’t mean it to be about presents, parties, cards, carols, cookies, trees and stockings.

He meant Christmas to be about peace, joy, redemption, restoration and healing.

But he can’t impart any of that on to unless we give him time and our heart.

Go to Him in your weariness, with your sorrow, your to do list, your financial burdens and your calendar.  Seek Him more in the chaos and craziness.  He can and will restore your weary soul.

In Him, we will find the Christmas spirit we are after.  It’s not in the best wrapped presents, Pinterest-worthy Christmas party, most delicious cookies, the joy in others, or a beautifully appointed tree.  Read my story here.  

Until next time keep on keeping on with a simple purposeful life!

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