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How To Create A Life-Changing Morning Routine

For years, my morning routine consisted of being jolted awake by a set of tiny toddler eyeballs inches from my face.  I got up when the kids got up because I was not a morning person and resigned myself to the fact that I never would be.  However, I coveted a few quiet moments alone guilt-free.  I knew the answer was to get up before my family and create a morning routine but could I do it?

The answer is yes and you can too!  I have realized what people have been saying for years, the early bird indeed gets the worm.  Creating an early morning routine has set the tone of my day and changed my life.

So, what does my morning routine look like?

Get Up an Hour Before My Family

I get up at least an hour before my family.  When I started this routine, I decided what I wanted the time to be used and planned accordingly.

Brew Some Coffee

The first thing I do after rolling out of bed and slipping on my favorite slippers is to brew myself some french press coffee.  There’s nothing like the simple pleasure of the first cup of coffee in the morning in a still and quiet home.

cozy chair with fur blanket

Enjoy Some Quiet Time

After my coffee is brewed, I head to the family room.  I grab my favorite fuzzy blanket and curl up in my chair for some quiet time.  I keep all of my materials right next to it so I can plop down and get started with my quiet time routine.  (You can read more about that here)

Mentally Prepare for the Day

Before I leave my chair, I mentally run down our day.  Sometimes, while I am in my quiet time, something comes to mind so I will write it on my hand (bad habits die hard).  It’s nice to think through everything while my mind is still fresh.

Create a To-Do List

Many times I have already written a few to do list items the day.  However, while I am mentally processing my day, I think of a few things to add to the list.  I write everything down, even the seemingly simple things so I don’t forget (mom brain ;).

Mark off a Few Low-Hanging Fruit Items

If there is time left, I will take care of a few quick to do list items that don’t take much time.  It’s such a nice feeling to cross a few things off the list before my kids even get up.

Wake Up My Kids & Get Them Started on Their Morning Routine

It’s time to wake up my kids and get them started on their morning routine.  While they are getting dressed, I go and make my bed (since everyone has vacated it at this point) and get started making their breakfast, helping make lunch, brushing teeth, and ushering them out the door for the day.

Some Helpful Tips…

Give Yourself Grace & Don’t Give Up

I am pretty sure I share this in every post but it’s key to give yourself grace.  We so often chuck something before we even have a chance to see the benefits.

 Know Your Why & What You Want to Accomplish

Why do you want to create a morning routine?  What do you hope to accomplish?  For me, I wanted a few moments guilt-free to start my day off right.  Every other hour of the day someone was around.  Knowing your why will help you stay the course when it gets hard.

Set an Alarm and Don’t Press Snooze

Studies show that your body will get used to waking up at a set time if you consistently do it for a period of time.  So, set an alarm and get up when it goes off.  I use the bedtime function in the apple clock app.  It reminds me to go to bed at a decent time so I am ready to get up in the morning.  My biggest demise as a recovering night owl is staying up too late.

Leave Your Phone Behind

I have a no phone rule meaning I do not look at my phone until my morning routine is done.  It’s a distraction for me and those moments are really precious, I want to use them wisely.

Just remember…

So, maybe you are like me and you think I could never be a morning person.  I just want to encourage you that anything is possible if you set your mind to make a change and you dig in and do the hard work to establish a routine.  Don’t forget why you want to do it, that will help you keep on going even if you miss a day.

Do you have a morning routine?  What does your morning routine look like?  Why do you do it?

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Until next time keep on keeping on with a simple purposeful life!

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How to Develop a Purposeful Quiet Time Routine

Most mornings my alarm goes off at 5:45 am, I can’t believe I just typed that.  I am not a natural born morning person and for years I had no desire to get up long before my kids.

These days, I know I will regret pushing snooze so I flip off the covers, slip on my slippers and head downstairs to the quiet and still peaceful kitchen.  I warm some hot water in my tea kettle and prepare myself some french press coffee before settling into my chair and beginning quiet time with God.

Before I created a quiet time routine, my bible reading and prayer were haphazardly placed in my day.  I didn’t have a plan and quite honestly more days than not that meant it just didn’t happen.  Like any relationship, our relationship with God is at its best when we spend time with him, praying and reading His word.  So, how do you cultivate a simple and purposeful quiet time?

How to develop a quiet time with God

Know Why You Want to Cultivate this Habit

Before you set-up your spot or set the alarm, you first need to make sure you know your why.  This step is often skipped but asking why when establishing any routine is essential.

When you know your why, you will keep on keeping on even on the hard days, the days you don’t want to get out of bed.

So, why do you want to create a quiet time routine?  My why was simple.  It wasn’t because I was supposed to, although I had heard for years it was an essential part of a Christian’s walk.  That “why” was not going to sustain me for long.  Instead, I wanted to make God a priority in my life and grow a deeper relationship with Him.  Spending time with Him made life better.

Find a Time

Once you know why you want to do it and make establishing this routine a priority, you need to find a time.  Most people like early mornings because there are fewer distractions and it’s a great way to start the day.  I would agree but when I had little kids underfoot, just the thought of getting up early made me tired.  So, choose a time that works best for you.

Gather Your Materials

In order to make the best use of your time, gather all of your materials into a basket and choose a spot to do your quiet time.  It doesn’t have to be fancy, it just has to be functional.  Gather a pen, highlighter, devotional, journal and study bible near where you will have your quiet time.

Set an Alarm & Practice

Even if you don’t get up early, set an alarm or make it an appointment in your planner.  Cultivating a new routine feels clunky at first.  Remember, when you first learned to ride a bike.  It felt wobbly and you didn’t exactly know what to do but with practice and time, you figured it out.  Give yourself grace as you practice this new habit.  Experts say it takes at least 21 days to make a new routine, a habit.

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How to Structure Your Quiet Time

So, now that you are cultivating this new routine, how do you make it purposeful?  I structure my quiet time into 4 main categories.

Gratitude

I think of quiet time as a conversation with God.  I start out giving him thanks for all he has given me.  I use my journal and think of all the small ways I have to be grateful to start.

praying hands and bible

Prayer

Then, I transition to prayer by giving him thanks for all the things I am grateful for and the things that are weighing on my heart, prayers for others and myself.  I love writing down my prayers because my heart just flows right on to the paper.

Scripture

I finish my quiet time reading God’s word.  You could read a devotional or the Bible.  I love to read a book of the Bible in its entirety so I can understand the full story and context.  If you are new to reading the bible, you could start with Philippians or John.  You can read at your own pace.  God can use even one scripture to teach you something.

A study bible (like this one) is also really helpful in helping you understand what the author was trying to express.  There are also cross-references to other Bible passages with the same theme located usually in the margins of a bible.

As I am reading a passage, I ask myself two questions –

  1. What does this say about God
  2. What lesson or promise can I apply to my life

Just Remember to Give Yourself Grace

It might surprise you to know, I don’t have a quiet time every day.  I aim for 5 days a week.  We often beat ourselves up for the days we didn’t do instead of celebrating the habit we are creating.

I often fall into the trap of wanting it to be all or nothing but life doesn’t work like that, you will give up if you think you have to do it perfectly.  Keep going, don’t throw the baby out with the bathwater because you missed a day!

Quiet times also don’t have to be the same length every day.  God is always there ready to hang out with you.  No quiet time routine looks the same but that’s the beauty, you and God can make it be exactly what you need.

Until next time, keep on keeping on with a simple, purposeful life!
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How to Establish an After School Routine

A couple weeks ago I shared on Instagram (follow here) and Facebook (follow here) how we establish a good after-school routine.  A good routine helps everyone know what do, provides a sense of stability and saves your sanity.  I need all the help I can get!

So, what is the recipe for a good after-school routine?

You will need a simple, logical system that can be learned easily and repeated daily after being taught.  Along, with a  simple, purposeful space where your kids can store all their gear including backpacks, shoes, lunch boxes, and papers.  The goal of an after-school routine is for kids to be able to take care of it independently!

Teach the Routine before Expecting Independence

When I taught first grade we spent the first several weeks teaching routines.  I explicitly taught the kids how to stand in line to what it looks like to reader reads a book.  It might seem crazy to model a routine so explicitly but laying the foundation helped the kids to know exactly what to do.  They were able to do that routine independently, once taught, which freed me up to provide quality instruction.

The goal of a routine at home might be different but it’s still important to teach kids what is expected, even walk them through each step and if they are young, model the behavior you want them to do.  Remember, keep it simple so they can do it independently long-term.

So what does our after school routine look like?

The kids arrive home from school and put their shoes in their own shoe bin.  Each child has their own shoe bin, under the mudroom bench.  Then, they then hang up their backpacks and any outerwear they might have on their designated hook in the mudroom.

They empty paperwork from their take-home folders on to the kitchen counter.  Next, they empty their lunchboxes of trash, place any dirty water bottles and dishes in the sink and then store their lunch boxes in a basket in the pantry.  Then, they wash their hands, grab a snack and finish any homework before setting the timer for 30 minutes to either watch tv or the iPad.

I sort through their paperwork on the counter and immediately recycle non-essentials or keepsakes and respond to any correspondence, like permission forms or signing planners.  Then, I check the homework and sign Solon’s planner.  The entire routine once learned takes less than 10 minutes (minus homework).

Once the routine is established, our kids know what to do when they get home from school each day and they are motivated to take care of it so they can get to their snack and iPad time!  This simple routine sets the tone for the rest of the evening and fosters less chaos which is always sought after in our busy home!

 

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